ABOUT MenSpeak

This book is the first of its kind that is an intimate look at the male experience as told, uncensored, by the men themselves. The male spirit hurts. It has been hurt. And for too long it has returned or transferred that hurt to others - physically, verbally, emotionally, psychologically, spiritually - and to itself. MenSpeak is about expressing that hurt and healing through empathic listening with deep, soft curiosity to other men speak. You will experience men willing to reopen wounds and allow you to enter into what the male spirit experiences. Then, to go through the wounding experience to the lightness of being a lovable, loving and spiritually connected Self. This book is intended for all men. MenSpeak is also for everyone whose male spirit longs to be expressed without harshness, criticism, sarcasm, hurt, ridicule, blame, accusation, non-acceptance, disapproval or fear.

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Paul Mott is a psychotherapist in private practice in Melbourne, Australia. He has facilitated numerous groups for men, women, individuals, couples, groups, organizations and businesses. He has been married since 1968, has three children and five grandchildren. He has previously written Language Arts, A Source Book, Art Lessons for Students by Students, We're People and Reading Readiness. In the mid 80s, Paul left the corporate, academic and government worlds and began his private practice. Since going into private practice he has facilitated numerous groups since 1985 for men, women, individuals, couples, groups, organizations, and businesses. One such group was called The Men's Group, which ran for 15 years.


What People are Saying About MenSpeak

Dr. Peter Howe, Anaesthetist, Royal Children’s Hospital, Melbourne, Australia

“Men, surely it is time to feel compassion for ourselves and others and be courageous enough to set aside patterns of behaviour that do not seem to be helping and arrive somewhere new.”

Veneta Tsindos, Journalist and Author

“I’ve never really heard MenSpeak so frankly and openly about themselves and their lives.”

Dr. John Buckingham, Dentist

“MenSpeak is a profound book that finally has been written and speaks directly from the speaker to the reader about the experience of men in their own words.”

Amanda Spedding, Author

“This is a great book that delves into the psyche and spirit of men – and how this understanding can affect the future of male generations to come. It gave me greater insight into my husband and son.”

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On my blog, each week I will be providing a verbatim transcript of what each of the 24 men wrote during their time at The Men’s Group. The only changes are to any word or statement that can identify them. I have not included usual background labels of the socio-psycho-economic-calendric-historic-geographic-occupational identifiers we search for i..... Read More


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